LGB vs T

[lovinlife101]

There is an internal war going on and grab some popcorn!

https://www.nytimes.com/2019/12/19/worl ... ender.html

By definition and conviction L’s are women who are attracted to women, G’s are men who are attracted to men, B’s are either men or women that are attracted to both men and women. The whole construct is built on gender being binary.

Then there’s T. T’s believe that there is no gender binary. They don’t believe in lesbianism because in their world “female” doesn’t exist and you can’t be attracted to a female because that doesn’t exist either. Same for G’s and B’s.

Mental illness, anyone?

[lovinlife101]

XX and XY are scientific FACTS!!!

LGBTQIA+ believes “male” and “female” genders are social constructs, unless you’re talking about gay, lesbian, or bi, which require male and female.

However, they fail to acknowledge that the 51+ genders Facebook allows is also a social construct.

[lovinlife101]

Private matter.
Butt out.
Accept personal choice.
All persons created equal - according to America.
Put it into practice.
Embrace all our harmless differences.

Including yours.

No.
No.
No.
No.
No.
No.

No.

[lovinlife101]

It's nuts.

Don't they cut those off?

Unfortunately so. I can never have meatballs again.

[lovinlife101]

I really think that many of you on here, but especially lovinlife and Bryce are pathetic closet cases. How else can you explain both of your fascinations with gay people? All you have to do is type in the keyword "gay" in the search bar and your usernames come up multiple times. As a proud gay man (born this way, thanks mom and dad!), I find it is usually those who are so insecure and ignorant that have the most issues and are usually closet cases. Its people like Bryce and lovinlife that made my life a living hell growing up as I did not chose to be gay and was persecuted for it. So fun spending all your time on a local news forum spewing crap isn't it? Do either of you have careers that produce an actual income? Hard to believe given the time spent here. If I had to guess you both live in a very homogeneous city with no diversity and probably sleep in your mom's basements and are afraid of anything that doesn't look like you. I joined this forum a long time ago and stopped participating and visiting the forum because nothing goes on here except boomers crying and giving completely uninformed opinions about dying local news, disgusting comments about the appearance of on-air talent and gay bashing and the moderators are 100% complicit in that. The site has become a total joke. Congrats, you guys successfully repel people from this site and you created your own personal place to whine about people who are different from you because you're sad, afraid, little trolls whom I would guess no one wants to be around!

So writing about something means you are that? So all people who write about human trafficking are involved in trafficking people? Your argument makes no sense.

You believe those who criticize the gay lifestyle are gay themselves? So you’re saying it’s closet gay people’s fault that there is gay-bashing. Wow, you and Greta must have gone to the same school.

You also said closet gays are “pathetic.” Nice.

I’m independently wealthy, so I don’t punch a clock like the rest of you slobs.

Oh, and you chose to be gay, like others choose to be straight. Love is a choice, not an instinct. You can’t have your plug and eat it too, even though you really want to.

[lovinlife101]

So it’s not your choice to shove your manhood into another man’s sewer pipe? If you didn’t choose that, who’s forcing you to do that, since it’s not your choice?

What do you think about bisexuals? Are they not choosing men and women or do you think they’re just like “whatever” and jump in bed with anybody?

Do you believe people are born thieves? “They can’t help stealing THEY WERE BORN THIS WAY, LADY GAGA!” Why bother trying to change any behavior? “They have no control over it!”

What about racists? Can they not change their behavior? “THEY WERE BORN THIS WAY!!!”

We make choices and are responsible for those choices. And no, “road rage” is not a thing. You were not born that way. You’re trying to excuse certain behaviors.

[lovinlife101]

Thievery and racism are learned behaviors. I agree that those are choices one makes. Your comparison between them and sexual preference is not valid.

How exactly is racism a “behavior”? A belief, yes, but not a behavior. Actions can come from that belief, or it can not be acted upon.

Sexuality isn’t a learned behavior? That’s funny. So infants are either “gay,” “straight,” or something else? How do you know? How do they know?

I’m happy to provide you a course in reproduction. Or as the LGBTQIA+ community calls it, “breeding.”

[lovinlife101]

Thievery and racism are learned behaviors. I agree that those are choices one makes. Your comparison between them and sexual preference is not valid.

How exactly is racism a “behavior”? A belief, yes, but not a behavior. Actions can come from that belief, or it can not be acted upon.

Sexuality isn’t a learned behavior?!

I’m happy to provide you a course in reproduction. Or as the LGBTQIA+ community calls it, “breeding.”

Can I ask who you desire to have sex with?

NOT YOU!!!!!!

[lovinlife101]

Thievery and racism are learned behaviors. I agree that those are choices one makes. Your comparison between them and sexual preference is not valid.

How exactly is racism a “behavior”? A belief, yes, but not a behavior. Actions can come from that belief, or it can not be acted upon.

Sexuality isn’t a learned behavior?!

I’m happy to provide you a course in reproduction. Or as the LGBTQIA+ community calls it, “breeding.”

Can I ask who you desire to have sex with?

NOT YOU!!!!!!

Oh, and by the way, not everyone is sexual or acts on their sexuality. It’s all choice.

[lovinlife101]

Bisexuals make all kinds of choices. Guys, girls, multiples of both. All choice. By definition, they can’t be in a committed relationship with just one. Like the potato chips, bet you can’t eat just one!!!

[lovinlife101]

Bisexuals make all kinds of choices. Guys, girls, multiples of both. All choice. By definition, they can’t be in a committed relationship with just one. Like the potato chips, bet you can’t eat just one!!!

That’s not even remotely true... sexual orientation and level of commitment exist separately... plenty of bi-sexual people are committed to one person... you’re slipping.

Nope! By definition they’re both.

If they’re with one exclusively, they’re either straight or gay/lesbian.

[lovinlife101]

Oh, and by the way, not everyone is sexual or acts on their sexuality. It’s all choice.

I agree, it's a choice.

I didn’t wake up one day and say “gee my sexuality is about ready to roll... let me choose what I want”... it just kinda happened... you can’t choose who you are attracted to as a whole, only those people you associate with...

That’s your opinion.

[lovinlife101]

Oh, and by the way, not everyone is sexual or acts on their sexuality. It’s all choice.

I agree, it's a choice.

I didn’t wake up one day and say “gee my sexuality is about ready to roll... let me choose what I want”... it just kinda happened... you can’t choose who you are attracted to as a whole, only those people you associate with...

That’s your opinion.

That’s a fact... what you’re arguing is like saying the sky is orange and everybody else is color blind... you aren’t entitled to your own set of facts just so you can troll a little harder...

That’s your opinion.

[lovinlife101]

I get dumbfounded that anybody really thinks being gay/straight is a choice.

But I'm honestly sorry you feel that love is a choice, ll. Have you ever been in love?

According to your twisted reasoning, love is not a choice. Therefore, the opposite of love is not a choice. So you believe hate is something you’re born with.

I choose not to hate. Maybe you’ll get there someday.

[lovinlife101]

I get dumbfounded that anybody really thinks being gay/straight is a choice.

But I'm honestly sorry you feel that love is a choice, ll. Have you ever been in love?

According to your twisted reasoning, love is not a choice. Therefore, the opposite of love is not a choice. So you believe hate is something you’re born with.

I choose not to hate. Maybe you’ll get there someday.

You choose not to hate?!?

Every moment of every day.